ch. 1 - change
- Recognizing Emotions: There is no way to block feelings / emotion. All you can do is recognize you have them. This will give you information into how you can shift your perspective.
- Make an emotional thermometer. When we're most frustrated and most overconfident, is when we're likely to make our worst trading decision.
- When you identify an elevated frustration temp, turn away from your screen, and fixate your attention on something else, music or imagery.
- You must sustain the changes you make, do no relapse back to old habits. Use whatever emotion force that makes you desire to choose trading as a career to fuel this change.
- Goals: Performing efficacious at work that is important to us generates mirror experiences of competence and self-worth
- structured pursuit of goals is one of the best means for creating positive mirrors because we generate construct opportunities for power, self-affirming emotional experiences
- goal is something you can have control over - a trading process, not profit target. goals:
- increase size incrementally, exiting trade in stages, limit trades to setups w/ market trend
- at the end of the day, make a report card based on how you achieved the goal
- if you fail to achieve a good grade, improvement becomes the goal for the next day. if not, make new goals
- Visualize your goal before you start trading
- Upon reaching your goals you must experience yourself as a success. If you see yourself as successful you will feel the joys of success. Goals are not making lots of money, goals of good trading are things like controlling position sizing, entering long positions on a pullback, ect.
- Process goals answer the question - what would make my trading day a success today, even if i don't make money?
- Confidence:
- You must prepare for the market, this will make you feel as though you deserve to win
- self-confidence is knowing that you can handle the worst - surviving the many occasions of being wrong
- Make memos of what you did wrong, send it to a trading buddy to follow up w/ you a couple days later
- Change
- You will only change when you're ready to change
- Choose 1 goal to work on intensively at a time, if you choose too many they will become watered down
- Don't relapse when you first make the change. Double your efforts to keep the change going
- Perform specific exercises and actions that are consistent w/ the change, don't just think about it
- As you complete one goal, find the next. You can always become a more consistent trader. Self improvement never stops
ch. 2 - stress and distress
- Our interpretation of situations turn normal stress into distress. Trading is always stressful, but should not turn into distress
- How to prevent distress
- Position sizing guidelines, per trade loss limits, per trade price targets, and daily loss limits
- risk per trade should be meaningfully smaller than potential reward of profit targets
- amount of money of daily loss should be a fraction of the money you make on your best days
- no single daily loss should be so large to prevent you from making money for the week
- Journal
- Every time you experience a distinctly negative emotional reaction to a market event, ask yourself, "How am I perceiving the current market as a threat"
- Identify the perceived threat and turn it into an opportunity. Write it down in a journal
- Journal has 3 columns, it must be detailed enough to understand what is going on in your mind at that time:
- Specific situation in the market,
- transcribe your exact thoughts / feelings / actions taken in response to the situation,
- consequences of the particular cognitive, emotional, or action patterns taken in column 2. => goal is to become aware, not change, do for 30 days
- You can add a 4th column, with what a friend might say to you that was positive about your thinking / trade idea
- It is an emotional exercise, not logical. It needs to have the power of emotional force, and vigorously reject the negative thought patterns. These thought patterns have sabotaged your trading, cost you money, and threatened your success
- Trading rules - to create repetition
- rules for risk management; taking breaks after large or multiple losses, entering at defined signal points, preparation for the day.
- review rules before trading and visualize yourself in different trading situations following the rules
- review rules during the day
- grade your rule following at the end of the day, if you get less than a B, it is an explicit goal for next days trading
- Fear
- Fear is a cue to examine your trade more deeply, not make changes.
- Make a checklist of things you look for to make sure your trade is working, and whether it makes sense to be in it.
- Performance Anxiety
- Thinking about the outcome of a your performance will interfere with the process of performing. Focus on the doing, and the outcome takes care of itself
- Know your niche and only trade that product, time frame, and setup. Most of the time bad trades come from trading out side your performance zone
- Label trades as A,B,C. A are home runs, B are good setups, and C are marginal setups. When you lose your edge or start a slump, only take the A trades are reassess the market
- Volatility will cause anxiety if you are not aligned w/ the market. If you expect high volatility, but market is low, you will expect moves that never occur. If it is high and you expect low, you will get stopped out too easily. You will also not size your positions correctly
- You need many fulfilling activities in your life, so if trading isn't working out particularly well, you have other things you are being successful at
- Rate yourself on spiritual interests, artistic activities, athletic pursuits, social life, intellectual life, family, community and hobbies. Select 1 area for cultivation to improve emotional diversification
- Maximize Confidence
- It's easier to stay in a trade if you have a defined profit target because you get less caught up in the up and down ticks of the market
- You must know the historical odds of the market acting in your favor. Without this it is hard to have confidence in the ideas. Markets experience normal retracements on the way to to a profit target, and those adverse excursions will be difficult to weather
- these pullbacks can be viewed as threats to paper profits or opportunities to add at favorable prices
- It takes more confidence to sit through a trade than to enter it
- Most people will choose a 100% chance of making $1000 vs 75% chance of making $1500, even though on avg you get $1125
- Processing retracements
- a lost paper profit is not a threat to your account
- most criticize themselves for missed opportunities or lapse into a state of frustration
- it is the self blame and discomfort of second guessing you are avoiding when you take a profit before your profit target
- Confidence is trust
- you must act on your trade ideas and see through to their planned conclusion to develop trust in your ideas.
- Leave on a small portion of your position to your intended target to help you build trust in your ideas
- How to review your trading journal to self diagnose
- divide entries into 2 clusters, successful trading and trading at your worst
- look for things such as trade frequency, trade size, coping with market challenges
- Compare best trades vs worst trades w/:
- emotional patterns - distinct differences in how you feel before and during trades
- behavior - differences in how you prepare trades, manage them
- cognitive patterns - thought process or concentration level
- physical patterns - energy level, tension, relaxation, posture
- trading - sizing, times of the day, mode of entering (scale vs all in), instruments traded
- Watch for:
- impulsive of frustrated trades after losing ones
- risk averse / failing to take good trades after a losing period
- overconfident during a winning period w/ marginal and unplanned trades
- anxious about performance and cutting winning trades short
- oversizing to make up for losses
- ignoring stop-loss levels to avoid taking losses
- working on trading when you're losing money, but not when you're making it
- caught up in moment to moment action vs actively managing a trade, preparing for the next trade
- beating yourself up after losing trades / losing motivation for trading
- trading for excitement / activity rather than making money
- trading because you're afraid of missing market move, rather than favorable risk / reward
- Best traders continue to compete against themselves long after they have made enough to retire. They are constantly trying to improve rather than make money
- Journaling is an emotional exercise, not a cognitive one. You must learn to hate your worst trading habits so you do not repeat them because they disgust you.
- Keep yourself solution focused:
- What did I do well today/this week? What did I do right about this trade?
- Usually many trading problems come from 1 core problem: ie: negative self talk causes missing good trades, sizing position too conservatively, cutting winning trades too quickly
- Imagery
- Mentally summoning stressful market scenarios and imagining in detail how we want to respond to these, we inoculate ourselves against those stresses by priming our coping mechanisms
- Visualize specific market / situation, levels, and PA. the realism enables the exercises to substitute for real experience
- Visualize like a movie, playing out real time
- Imagine from beginning to end, until the entire situation no longer evokes emotion
- Slightly vary the scenario
- Repeat the visualization daily
- Imagine how FT or Lak would trade the same market
Ch 5 - breaking old patterns
- Past relationships are the basis for your identity. How you reacted to past relationships will affect how react to current relationships. Relationships can be with anything people or markets.
- One trader defended against loss by never getting too close. He lost a sibling when he was young and his parents tried not to dwell on the tragedy. He never committed to anyone, to keep his from experiencing his pain of loss, but never had a fulfilling emotional life. He traded with ludicrously small size, and was distracted by chat rooms / reading web sites. He avoided loss in relationships, dabbled at the edges of markets, and never achieved anything close to his potential.
- To crystallize your pattern you need to understand the underlying need. The trader above had an overwhelming need for safety and took the safest path in relationships and trading. He is guarding against the vulnerability of investing in oneself and losing that emotional investment.
- Patterns can be broken down:
- Need - what we are missing, what we crave
- Feeling State - distress associated with not having that need met
- Defense - what we do to cope and avoid the painful feeling state
- repetitions - how we replay defenses in current situations
- consequences - negative outcomes from our current defensive efforts
- Schemas are habits of negative thought patterns that hijack your mind and the way your process information. You need to feel the horror of losing control of your mind / behavior
- justice - i put in my work, i should make money
- catastrophe - it would be terrible if my trade didn't work out
- safety - i can't act the market is too dangerous
- self-worth - i'm a total failure, i can't make money
- rejection - i'll look like a fool if i can't succeed at this
- Market is not about you
- When you start using "I" and "me" your attention is becoming self-directed.
- Need to break this thought process
- Worry
- visualize worst case scenario and how you would handle it constructively.
- What are you really fearful of? what unresolved situation is looming?
- until you face it, it will intrude in your work and affect your mood
- worry reinforces a sense of hopelessness and helplessness in the face of those scenarios
- worry masks larger concerns
- once you anticipate the worst case scenario, you can take catastrophe out of the situation
- you don't drive on the opposite side of the road because it is dangerous, you don't have to think about it, you just do it. You should have the same rules with trading. Internalize the rules so you it doesn't even occur to you to do dangerous things
- make sure you are emotionally connected to the rule, ie: remember the times you violated the rule and what happened
- Common rules:
- Position sizing
- limiting losses - per trade, day, week
- adding to position
- when you stop trading or limit size / risk
- when you increase size / risk, per trade / per day
- entering and exiting
- preparing for the day / week
- diversification among position
- during every change process you will relapse to your old ways, this is common and expected, until they become automatic
- Imagine situations where you feel fear, greed, frustration, and boredom. Imagine yourself tempted to react in your normal patterns, and the vividly envision keeping those negative patterns in check
Ch 8 - coaching as a trading business
- trade management - the market generates information once you are in the trade, use this to your advantage
- he has 6 units, and only enters trades w/ 1 or 2. If his ideas are confirmed, he adds units on pullback
- you must cultivate an aggressive mindset when you know you have the market nailed.
- add to your position on paper after you've entered and track how well these 'nailed' positions perform
- Experienced traders know when they are right and wrong. Beginners try to avoid being wrong. Experienced traders know they'll be wrong on a significant portion of their trades. Their coaching is designed to help them anticipate and manage losses
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